Marriage, why?

I'm one of those few people that actually understand the true concept of marriage. Yes, I understand wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone. I have met some people that I feel that way about. Unfortunately it didn't happen. What I don't understand is people getting married in the midst of a whirlwind romance, and then divorcing after their first real argument. Irreconcilable differences and such. Whatever happened to knowing what you wanted, and fighting to keep it. Arguments happen, differences of opinion happen. Fight through it. Accept the bad with the good.

Or you could just not let yourself believe that temporary lust and desire is the same as the theoretical feeling of love. You have to remember the stages of attraction. I will list them here.

1. Attracted
2. I'd Hit it
3. I'd date it
4. I'd buy jewelry
5. I have to have it forever.

If your feelings aren't registered around #5, then you shouldn't even think about getting married. Marriage is forever. Even if you get divorced, its on the record that you'd been married before. In my opinion, I say make it a one time deal. Know when you want it, and work through the good and the bad.

I'm done....

Goodnight/ good day/ go away.

-B-

"Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It is already tomorrow in Australia." ~Charles Schulz